What do you do when you’re so sad you want to break, but you’re not alone and it is not convenient to run home?
I’ve figured that all of the one night stands, Summer flings, and fake-outs girls want to make are with guys that they don’t necessarily enjoy, just ones they think will create a good “session” with. Although every and any guy would love to be that mistake, not every guy gets to be - especially the ones who deserve to be “loved” like that.
To the men stuck in the friendzone, as I have been many a-time should realize one thing, if you aren’t that fake-out, Summer fling, or one night stand, it is soley for the fact that you are not a mistake. You are someone she considers for more than something she lets herself believe to deserve. Even though she’s completely incorrect in that way, there’s nothing you can do but accept. Or if you’re ready for something real, really worth your time and effort you got to put some work in. Evolve the relationship, make it happen. Let her know you feel that way, not by silly actions or flirtatious advances, but through speech. Literally words. From my experiences, and to feed the stereotypical nature that has been bestowed upon women, I have learned that women primarily rely on one sense: auditory. What they hear, followed by what they feel, and down in a direction that depends on which the woman was taught.
Sometimes women are thought of as not ready, but really the question is, are you? Make a move, or close your heart.